10 Bondage sex toys for people who want to get kinky

May 8, 2020 Posted in Adult Dating Guide by No Comments

Bondage Sex Toys Sex toys are a great way for couples to experiment and expand their sex life and there’s a lot more to try than just the standard vibrators and dildos. If you want to get kinky you can try doing role-plays while using toys or take things to a naughtier level by trying bondage and seeing just how much you trust your partner. There are lots of different sex toys you can use with BDSM so you can start out with a gentle item like a blindfold or handcuffs then progress to more rough items like nipple clamps and floggers. The variety of products can help you act out all kinds of fantasies and make sure your sex life isn’t boring ever again.

1) Handcuffs

They’re easy to use and you can buy padded ones for comfort or steel ones for a harsher feel. You can also choose how tight you want them to be so you can do them lightly if she’s a good girl or make them dig into her if she needs a bit of pain to remember who’s in charge.

2) Strap-on

Anal sex isn’t just for women, men can receive it too and there are a couple of sex toys that make it easy for them to get fucked and have their prostate played with. A strap-on is a great item to use because she can thrust slowly and gently to milk your prostate or she can slam into you until you can’t take it anymore. A strap-on lets you experience the pleasure of a prostate orgasm while making you submissive and vulnerable to your partner.

3) Nipple clamps

Some sex toys can give you pleasure or pain depending on how you use them and nipple clamps are one of them. You can get individual nipple clamps or a pair of them that are connected by a chain and you can decide how tightly to fasten them. This lets you choose how much pain you want to inflict and you can tease your partner by occasionally tugging on the chain to give them a quick jolt of pain.

4) Blindfold

If you’re new to bondage you can use sex toys that are exciting but non-threatening to help ease you into the lifestyle and see what you’re comfortable with. Blindfolds are great for this because it doesn’t cause physical pain and your imagination runs wild when it’s on which heightens your arousal. You can wear the blindfold and lie in bed after giving your partner permission to do whatever they want to you or you can use the blindfold along with headphones and a ball gag during sensory deprivation play.

5) Ball gag

Ball gags are great sex toys to use during submission play because it stops you from communicating and forces you to put more trust in your partner which can strengthen the bond between you. Ball gags come in different shapes so if you want something traditional you can buy a round ball one but if you want one that’s kinkier you can buy a penis shaped one.

6) Spanking paddle

A spanking paddle is one of the sex toys that let you gauge how much pain to inflict and they’re available in different shapes and sizes. You need to start out slowly and gently spank a fleshy area like the buttocks and gradually build up to a higher amount of force. If you’re really kinky and enjoy pain you can buy a spanking paddle with holes in it because these have a harder impact on skin. You can buy spanking paddles that are made out of wood or leather and you can buy ones that will imprint BDSM related words, like ‘whore’ or ‘slut’ on your body.

7) Flogger

Flogger BDSM
A flogger is a popular thing to use during bondage because it looks sexy and is a big part of impact play. They’re similar to a whip but they cause a sensation that is less sharp and painful and is similar to a smacking sensation. You use these sex toys in a similar way to a spanking paddle, by starting out slowly and building up to something more forceful. Since the tails give a more spread out impact you can use it on more areas, like on your back or legs.

8) Wartenberg Pinwheel

A Wartenberg Pinwheel is a kinky toy that consists of a handle with one or multiple spiked wheels at one end of it. You can have your partner lie down as you roll the Wartenberg Pinwheel over their body as you choose how much pressure to apply. A single Pinwheel gives them a sharp, localized pain but one with multiple wheels will spread the pain out further. Since this is one of the smaller and more portable sex toys you can buy, it’s easy to use all over their body. You can heighten the pain by using it on sensitive areas like their breasts or inner thighs. It should be cleaned after each sex session but it doesn’t break the skin or leave permanent marks so it’s safe to use regularly.

9) Bondage harness

A bondage harness is one of those sex toys that can be used to set the mood while also being functional. It is worn by men and women and consists of leather straps that criss-cross over the body. It looks kinky and the leather pressing against bare skin is an erotic sensation. Just seeing your partner wearing one can get you in the mood for naughty sex and it can be worn with clothes to create a bondage outfit. It is also a functional item and you can use the straps to restrain your partner’s arms behind their back or at their sides or you can use it to secure additional restraints and put your partner in tight bondage.

10) Chastity cage

Chastity can be done by both sexes but it can be more fun when done with males because they tend to have a higher sex drive. A kinky way to build the sexual desire between you and your partner and have passionate sex sessions is by wearing a chastity cage and giving her the key. She decides how long you have to go without sex or touching yourself and she can do things to drive you crazy, like giving you a striptease or sliding her hands over your body but avoiding the one area where you want her the most.

Katy Benett

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