8 Ways BDSM can help with pandemic fatigue

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bdsm with fatigue pandemicThe pandemic has been going on for a while now and many people are being weighed down by fatigue from all of the stress that it’s causing. Life has changed and it’s probably taken a toll on your mental health. This affects your relationship and things may have slowed down in the bedroom. You may want to change this but don’t know how. BDSM is unlikely to be the first thing you think of but it can have a big positive change in your life because it’s not just about sex, it also relieves stress, brings excitement back to your life and gives you the chance to strengthen the bond between you and your partner.

1) BDSM gives you something to look forward to

It’s tough to be excited about the future when you’re overwhelmed with fatigue caused by the pandemic so you need to give yourself something to look forward to. When you first decide to try BDSM you can wait a few days before actually doing anything so the anticipation has time to build and you can have fun thinking about all of the different things you want to try. Once you’ve tried BDSM and want to make it a regular part of your life you can space out the sessions and choose different activities so that it doesn’t get boring and you can look forward to this special time with your partner.

2) You can live out your fantasies

Everyone has sexual fantasies that are on the kinky side but not everyone explores them. BDSM lets you live out your kinkiest fantasies in a safe and healthy way so you no longer have to feel frustration about keeping them to yourself. You can try a roleplay or bondage toys to help make it a more realistic experience. Getting a chance to bring your fantasies to life is going to release some of the pressure you feel and help you realize that you’re not as restricted as you thought you were.

3) Your sex life can be reignited

When you’re feeling fatigue it’s going to affect all areas of your life and this is going to impact your relationship because you’re not going to be in the mood for sex. This puts an emotional distance between you and your partner and you need to change this before the damage is beyond repair. BDSM can help reignite the spark in the bedroom because you’re doing something new together which is going to get your arousal and creativity going. Once you start you’re going to find a million things you want to try and you won’t be able to keep your hands off each other as you try a once forbidden roleplay or surprise your partner with handcuffs.

4) It brings you closer to your partner

BDSM requires trust in your partner because you’re sharing very personal desires with them and you need to be confident that they’ll be safe with you and respect your boundaries. This isn’t something you can do with just anyone if you want it to be a fulfilling experience so when you take this step with your partner you’re taking a big risk. It’s important to do everything as a couple so take things slowly, answer any questions they have and learn how to do activities the right way. This is one of the most intimate things you’re going to share with each other and when it goes well the bond you feel with them gets stronger. It shows that you trust them and know that they’re going to look after you as well as you look after them during and after BDSM play.

5) BDSM relieves stress

One of the causes of fatigue is stress and the pandemic is going to make you feel a lot of this. You need to find a way to decrease the amount of stress you feel so you can get into a more positive state of mind. You can try BDSM for stress relief because it lets you indulge in something you love which is going to make you happier. It is also going to relieve stress by releasing mod enhancing chemicals like endorphins and adrenaline. These chemicals last awhile in your system and can help put you on the right path which will motivate you to keep working on having better mental health.

6) You can give up control

If you spend most of your day working and trying to keep everything in your life be okay while also finding time to spend with your partner then you’re going to get stressed out. Being the person in control isn’t something you can just give up with causing chaos in your life but it is something you can pause for an hour or so. BDSM can help you give up control by letting you be the submissive one who’s only job is to listen and obey your partner. It can be freeing to let them be in charge while also giving in to your sexual desires.

7) There’s lots to learn

There are many aspects of BDSM you need to learn before you do anything otherwise you can end up hurting yourself and your partner or it may not be as fulfilling as you thought it would be. You can learn about it together by reading articles or watching videos about the activities you’re interested and talking about how you would like the experience to go. It can be fun learning something new and this can stop you from feeling fatigue because you’re spending time doing something you care about. You can learn how to do a roleplay with bondage toys, choosing a safe word only your partner will know, different bondage techniques and the variety of toys you can use.

8) You can try many different scenarios and toys

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Since there are o many different scenarios you can act out during BDSM and a variety of toys you can try it’s possible to make a long list of everything you can do with your partner. This can help relieve fatigue because it gets you out of your regular routine and make you be more outgoing and creative. It can become a new hobby where you pick an activity, learn everything about it, talk to your partner about trying it then make it happen. It’ll be a long time before you run out of ideas and you won’t even notice as the fatigue fades.

Dating Writer at MonkeysReviews.com
She lives in Malibu (California).
Currently She works as dating writer for different adult blogs, and She coaches men and women on sex and relationship.
Katy Benett

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