Valentine’s Day can suck if you’re single but it doesn’t have to be that way. Instead of sitting at home feeling sorry for yourself, you can have a fun Valentine’s Day that you’ll remember all year long, especially if you know where the right places to flirt are and if you get in touch with other singles who just want to get laid.
1) Look for local events for singles
A lot of places will have events for singles on Valentine’s Day and these are usually popular and full of singles who are looking to have fun. The kind of events vary by place but they could involve speed dating, drinks and dinner with a group of strangers or a party. You can find out where these are by looking online or by asking your single friends if they know about any events that are happening. If you’re not sure which ones would suit you, you can check out more than one event. Some require booking in advance so make sure you give yourself plenty of time to find a couple of events you’d like to go to.
2) Go to a sex club
If you’re in the mood to get laid then going to a sex club could be the best way for you to spend Valentine’s Day, because this is one of those places to flirt where you’re pretty much guaranteed to get lucky. These places tend to have play parties or themed events on holidays which attract regular visitors as well as newcomers so you don’t need to be nervous if it’s your first time going to a sex club. You can go there just to watch and get comfortable with the scene so you’re more confident the next time you go there or you can take things further and get laid by a sexy singleton or playful couple. It all depends on how you want to spend your Valentine’s Day.
3) Use online dating sites to get laid
Online dating sites like adult friendfinder are perfect places to flirt and easily get laid so join one and see if there’s anyone local who wants to hook up with you. You don’t want to give them the wrong idea so make it clear you only want a one night stand and fill out your profile completely so you can spend less time getting to know each other and get to the fun part quicker. You can join an online dating site that’s free or see if there’s a coupon code for Valentine’s Day if you want to join a paid site.
4) Go clubbing
Hitting up a couple of clubs on Valentine’s Day can be a great way to have fun and meet other singles. They’ll want to forget about being single and will be more likely to want a one night stand so have a couple of drinks to loosen up and get to know some people. Once you’ve gotten to know a few people you can decide who you’re interested in and spend more time focused on them. Get into a party mood and show everyone you know how to have a good time then end the night by asking a special someone to go back to your place.
5) Treat yourself to dinner or drinks
It feels nice to do something you wouldn’t normally do so go to a restaurant or bar you’ve always wanted to try and don’t worry about being alone. If you go early in the evening you’ll avoid seeing all the couples having dinner together and you may end up seeing a few people who are by themselves too. You can start a conversation over drinks with one that grabs your attention then ask if they’d like to have dinner with you.
6) Buy some new sex toys
If you’re not in the mood to social but you still want to get laid then you can compromise by spending Valentine’s Day getting in touch with your sexuality. You can go to an adult store and buy some new sex toys then go back to your place and set the mood by turning off your phone dimming the lights and getting comfortable. Make the night all about you by watching the porn you love, closing your eyes and relive your favorite fantasy and putting your new sex toys to use.
7) Throw a party for your single friends
You can throw a Valentine’s Day party for you and your single friends so you can have fun and realize that you don’t need to be in a relationship to make the day special. If you only have a couple of friends who are single you can ask them to bring along some of their single friends to fill out the party. There’s a good chance that you’ll meet someone new and you’ll end Valentine’s Day by getting laid.
8) Take a day trip
You can have a fun Valentine’s Day by yourself and one of the ways to do this is by going on a day trip to a nearby town. Since you’re single you only need to worry about what you want to do so plan in advance all the things you want to see and make it the perfect trip. If you’re on a budget you can look for free attractions or events and find out where the most affordable places to eat are. You’ll be so bury having fun that you’ll forget about Valentine’s Day and your love of travel will be satisfied as well as re-ignited.
9) Do an online sex show
If you’re the adventurous type you can do something wild for Valentine’s Day and do an online sex show. You can use a cam site and play with a variety of people or find someone who wants to Skype one on one. You don’t have to show your face if you’re not comfortable with that or you can disguise yourself by wearing a naughty mask or disguise. You can have lots of sexy fun without leaving your bedroom and if it goes well you could end up having a cyber sex buddy who you can play with on a regular basis.
Currently She works as dating writer for different adult blogs, and She coaches men and women on sex and relationship.
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