Real sex is nothing like the sex you see in porn and this can lead to you having problems in the bedroom because of unrealistic expectations. If you stop watching porn then you can experience sex the way it should be experienced and you’ll be able to make a stronger connection with your partner which can lead to you being happier.
1) Decreased motivation
It’s easy to lose motivation when porn is so easily accessible and some men give in to it. They stop going out to meet women because it seems like too much work, especially since they’re not guaranteed to go home and have sex with her. They take the easy route instead and stay home to masturbate while watching porn and this becomes their substitute for dating.
2) Insecurity
Men and women in porn have bodies that are exceptional; the men are muscular and have bigger than average dicks while the women are sexy and have big breasts. This creates unrealistic expectations of how people should look and can lead to people feeling insecure about their own looks. Men feel like they’re not what women expect and worry about whether or not they’re big enough.
3) Real women become unsatisfactory
Women in porn make themselves look sexier with make-up and plastic surgery while real women use make-up and clothes to highlight their positive features. This leads to men desiring the unattainable and real women are no longer good enough for them. When they stop watching porn they can re-learn to appreciate women for who they are.
4) Stops you from communicating with your partner
Everyone has sexual desires and porn caters to every kink imaginable so it’s easy for people to explore by themselves. Men who aren’t comfortable communicating their desires will use porn to satisfy themselves which will create an emotional barrier between them and their partner. It’ll become a secret and over time it could cause problems in the relationship.
5) Porn addiction
Anything can become an addiction if you do it often enough and it brings you pleasure. If you turn to watching porn whenever you’re bored or turned on then it becomes a habit that’s hard to break. You get used to doing it and eventually you need more of it to satisfy you which leads to a never ending cycle that can affect relationships and your social life.
6) Lack of intimacy
Watching porn is a one-sided experience and there’s a distant, empty feeling between you and the woman you’re watching. Since you’re not interacting with a real person that you have feelings for you’re not making a connection and this can lead to you feeling unsatisfied.
7) Poor social skills
You need good social skills if you want to successfully pick up women. You need to know how to flirt with them and get them interested in you which are things you don’t need to do when watching porn. The less time you spend interacting with women the more awkward it is for you to get back into that habit. It becomes something you’re not used to doing and you end up spending time alone instead of being in a meaningful relationship.
Currently She works as dating writer for different adult blogs, and She coaches men and women on sex and relationship.
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