Men and women both have certain ways that they like to get laid. Some individuals prefer sex more when it’s slower and romantic, others like it kinky and rougher. There is always room for improvement when it comes to having great sex. Partners should get tuned into each other’s wants and needs, their bodies, their favorite sex positions and how they like to go about getting there when the time comes. There are several moves in the bedroom to learn so you can improve performance and pleasure.
Everyone knows that a healthy sex life is a very important part of a good, solid relationship. Getting laid takes a little planning though. In order to get laid anytime you want, you must know how to spice things up and keep it that way in the bedroom. Oral sex can be pleasurable for both people involved if you take your time exploring what feels the best. That one special touch in a certain spot can push your partner over the edge.
Foreplay is a special need that most women want when they are about to have sex. The longer, more sensual and hotter the foreplay is, the bigger the payoff will be in the end for both women and men. Women like to feel sexy; wearing sexy outfits is a great way to turn up the heat. Some men are really into lingerie. Seeing a woman’s curves is vital since men are truly visual creatures.
The use of sex toys can really take things to a whole new level and they make great gifts as well. Talking with your partner first before buying should always be considered. You don’t want to make your partner feel uncomfortable. There are thousands of different sex toys to fit any need and desire.
Bondage or also well known as BDSM is another great way to explore new areas in the bedroom. There is something about someone having their way with another person while being tired up. Being teased and used is a huge turn on for some. Some people might have limits and boundaries that need to be discussed before practicing any type of bondage play.
Bottom line is, being creative is the best way to get laid; you have to think outside the box. You also need to be very spontaneous, never, ever stick to the same old routine when you are trying to get lucky. Try coming up with new, fun sexual positions; add a sex toy, some bondage and play. Mix it up and see what works the best for both partners.
Currently She works as dating writer for different adult blogs, and She coaches men and women on sex and relationship.
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