When using adult dating sites there’s a good chance of having a hot hookup or falling in love but there are big differences between the two emotions. You need to know what to look out for in order to decide if it’s a serious relationship.
1) Based on personality, not sex
Falling in love means loving the entire person but infatuation is based on sex. If all you want to do when you’re with them is have sex then it’s infatuation. If you like their personality and spend time going on dates or doing hobbies together then it’s a real relationship.
2) You accept their flaws
Accepting their flaws and accepting them for who they are is a sign that you truly love them. Look at how you treat them because if they annoy you or you’re always trying to change them then they’re not right for you. If it’s love you’ll accept their flaws as being part of who they are because you think they’re worth it.
3) You make an effort
You only make an effort in a relationship if it’s a serious one because you want to make it last long term. You’ll consider their feelings before doing things, take the time to get to know them better and deal with issues as soon as they happen to stop them from getting worse.
4) There’s monogamy
If you’re still using adult dating sites like FBookHookups to look for people to hook up with then it means you’re open to the idea of leaving your partner. Monogamy makes a relationship feel more secure and it also means that you feel secure with your partner. They satisfy your desires and you don’t want anyone else.
5) There’s trust
A sign of love is trusting your partner enough that you don’t get jealous when they talk to other people and you don’t need to constantly know what they’re doing. You trust that they love you and that they wouldn’t do anything to hurt you. You feel like they’re honest with you and that they love you too.
6) You don’t get angry easily
You’re willing to work on any problems in a calm way instead of getting angry because you know it’s important to keep the relationship healthy. You try to see things from their point of view and will find a solution that makes both of you happy so nobody feels unimportant.
7) You’re sure of your feelings
Think about how you feel about your partner because you should have a good idea of whether it’s love or infatuation.
8) They’re a part of your life
If it’s just infatuation then you’re not going to let them be a part of your life because you know it won’t last. When it’s love you’ll do things like introduce them to your family and friends as well as talk about work, life goals and career goals so they can get to know the real you.
Currently She works as dating writer for different adult blogs, and She coaches men and women on sex and relationship.
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