Knowing when and how to ask for threesome sex with your partner can be difficult because if it’s done in the wrong way it could end in an argument or worse. However, if it’s done the right way then it could be the start of a new and exciting chapter in your sex life.
You need to pick the right time to bring up the subject of having a threesome because you want your partner to seriously consider it while also getting turned on by the idea. Bringing it up when you’re both in the mood is a good idea because she’ll be horny and more likely to consider trying it. Make sure you do this before you have sex otherwise she’ll think you’re bringing it up because you don’t find sex with her to be good anymore. Ask her if it’s something she’s thought about while kissing and touching her, listen to her response then keep doing what you’re doing while slowly leading things to sex. Give her a great sex session and make it all about her to put her in a good mood then afterwards tell her that thinking about a threesome really turned you on. This will show her how much you like the idea and make her want to have hot sex with you again instead of the usual routine sex that most couples have.
You also need to keep an open mind and don’t get upset if things don’t go the way you planned. A lot of women love the idea of having two men at once while you might be interested in having a woman join you. Another possibility is that she tried a threesome before with her ex and it didn’t go well so she doesn’t want to try again. This is only your first time talking about it as a couple and if you get upset then she might shut the conversation down completely so keep your emotions under control. Keep your tone light and act like you’re interested because the more you talk about it the more you can try and steer things into the direction you want them to go.
Everyone wants to feel needed and seeing your partner with someone else could make you feel unwanted. This is something you need to remember when you ask for threesome because you want to make it sound like something to do together. Don’t make it sound like a fantasy of yours that you want to fulfill. If your partner seems hesitant about having a threesome then say that it could be a great way for the two of you to explore sexual boundaries. Keep the focus on doing this together and remember to let her know that you’re still attracted to her.
The tone you use when asking for a threesome is important because you don’t want to come across like it’s something you want and she better agree to it if she loves you. If you’re too demanding then it might put her off the idea without even thinking about it. Try to sound casual when you bring it up and if she seems uncomfortable or wants time to think about it then let her have that. You need to make sure she’s okay with the idea before you go any further.
If to have a threesome it’s something you’re interested in then you need to make your partner feel comfortable with the idea and let them know that you want to do it to bring you closer together. The more casual you are about it and the more you emphasis exploring as a couple the more likely it can become a reality.
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