11 Clear reasons to take a break from dating

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Dating Break
Taking a dating break can be good for you, especially if you’ve become too focused on trying to find love or are wasting too much time with online dating sites. This can have a negative impact on your life and a dating break can give you the time and space you need to get back on track.

1) You’re dealing with a bad breakup

Take some time to deal with your breakup and focus on yourself because you want to be happy and stable when you do start dating again. Deal with the emotions from the breakup in a way that works for you, whether it’s crying, talking to friends, exercising or working on your hobbies. You need to make sure you’re ready to date otherwise your next relationship will fail because you’re not focused on it.

2) You’re in a rush to find love

Find the Love
Being in a rush to find love because all your friends are getting married or because you’re ready to settle down can cause you to date someone that isn’t right for you. Your letting your desire become more important than dating someone you feel a genuine attraction to and you’re forcing them to be what you want. Don’t be in a rush to find love and try to figure out why it’s so important to you because there might be other issues you need to deal with.

3) You’ve never had a dating break

Some people go from relationship to relationship and they feel lost when they’re single. This leads to them being in bad relationships because it feels better than being alone. If this is you then you need to take a dating break so you can figure out why you’re so scared of being single. You should find things you can do by yourself and that bring you enjoyment, like hobbies or spending time with friends.

4) You feel unsatisfied with dating

If you’re feeling unsatisfied with dating because you can’t find someone you’re crazy about or because relationships don’t go the way you want them to then you need to take some time away from the dating scene. Taking some time away from it will give you a chance to clear your head and feel more relaxed. After a while you’ll look forward to dating and will start feeling excited about it again.

5) You’re used to dysfunctional relationships

People tend to date the same kind of person over and over again because it’s what they’re used to. Some people date abusers, some date people only looking for casual relationships while others date people they know they can never have because it’s an affair. These relationships tend to be dysfunctional and if you’re always in this type of relationship it’s going to take a toll on your mental and emotional health. Being single will help you learn how to avoid these types of people and see what type of person is wrong for you.

6) You’re dating for the wrong reasons

Dating for the wrong reasons isn’t healthy and if you’re doing this then you need to stop because you should be taking better care of yourself. There are a variety of wrong reasons, including fear of loneliness, an addiction to sex or dating someone who’s bad for you but who you feel like you deserve. Deep down you know you’re dating for the wrong reasons and you need to listen to your inner voice and stop. You can always start dating again when you know you’re ready to be in a serious, healthy and happy relationship.

7) You’re struggling with personal issues

Struggling with personal issues like work, poor health, aging parents or being a single parent can take a toll on a relationship. If your personal struggles are overtaking your life then it might be a good idea to take a dating break so you can deal with what’s going on before the stress wears you down. It might be harder dealing with it alone but it’s better than being in a relationship where the other person feels stressed or like they have to look after you.

8) You’re using dating as a distraction

Using dating as a distraction can be a bad thing because the problem is still going to be there when the relationship ends. It’s going to be a waste of time dating because you’ll feel a heaviness from the issue you’re avoiding and you might take your stress out on your partner. You need to confront the distraction head on and deal with it and it’s better to do this while single so you can give it all of your attention.

9) You’re addicted to the chase of online dating

Online dating makes it easy to meet sexy singles for dating or hookups and the rush of meeting someone new can become addictive. If you’re only meeting people on online dating sites and spend all your time thinking about who’s on right now and who’s new then you might have a problem. You should only be using online dating sites like Adult Friend Finder occasionally otherwise you could end up relying on it too much. Take a break and get used to meeting people in bars and other social settings so you can improve your communication skills and re-learn that it’s not all about sex.

10) You want to accomplish an important goal

If you have an important goal that you want to accomplish and it needs to be done soon then you should take a time out from dating. These goals could be things like going on a dream vacation, working overtime to get a promotion or something similar that requires all of your attention. Dating will only distract you and you’ll keep putting it off until you can no longer do it which you’ll regret. It’s better to accomplish these goals because it gives you a sense of accomplishment and boosts your self-esteem.

11) You need to figure out what you want

Know what you want
It’s hard to know what you want and it’s common for your wants and needs to change over time which means the things you were looking for in past relationships may no longer satisfy you. Think about what you want in a partner and from a relationship so that when you start dating again you won’t waste time with people who aren’t a good match. This will make you feel happier and increase your chances of having a successful long-term relationship because you’ll have a stronger feeling of what’s right for you.

Dating Writer at MonkeysReviews.com
She lives in Malibu (California).
Currently She works as dating writer for different adult blogs, and She coaches men and women on sex and relationship.
Katy Benett

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