Hookup sites are a great way to meet hot ladies for a good time and you can use them anytime, anywhere. If you’re traveling you can still keep your dating life active by joining a few hookup sites and messaging women who interest you.
1) Join a few hookup sites
There are lots of hookup sites like Fbookhookups you can join so keep your options open by joining more than one. By belonging to two or three hookup sites you’re reaching more hot ladies which will increase your chances of success but don’t join more than that because it will be hard to keep track of who you’re messaging. Sites that are free will be easier to join and they tend to have more users on them because people don’t want to pay for these types of sites which means you’ll have more variety to choose from. Remember to check your messages on all the sites you belong to so you don’t miss any messages.
2) Make it clear that you only want a hookup
If you’re a traveler you need to make it clear that you only want a hookup and aren’t interested in women who are looking for a serious relationship. This will stop misunderstandings from happening and only women who want that type of relationship will get in touch with you. This will help save you time because you won’t be messaging women who won’t work out and you can easily turn the conversation to meeting for sex without sounding like a creep.
3) Have an eye catching profile
You need to have an eye catching profile that will get women’s attention because when you’re traveling you don’t have a lot of time to waste. You want to seem like a cool, sexy, interesting guy that they need to meet so take the time to fill out your profile as much as possible. Upload five or six pictures of you, mention your hobbies, talk about why you’re traveling and describe what your ideal first date would be like.
4) Message multiple women
You want to meet someone as soon as possible so keep your options open and message multiple women because you don’t know which ones will be interested and able to meet in the near future. Don’t mention this because you don’t want to give the wrong impression, instead just day that you’d like to meet while in town and hopefully you can find a time that works for both of you. By doing this you’re not making a commitment to a single person and you could end up hooking up with a couple of different women while you’re in town.
5) Narrow down your search
Narrowing down your search will make it easier to find hot ladies who meet your ideal without wasting time checking out profiles of women who aren’t a good match. You can use the search function to find women who are local, who are between a specific age range and sometimes you can also search by kinks you have in interest or by the kind of relationship you’re looking for. When you’ve narrowed your search down to only those who meet your criteria you can start messaging them for a hookup then wait for them to reply.
6) Don’t waste time with someone who’s unsure
If you’re messaging a woman and she’s slow at replying to them or is not sure if she wants to meet you then let don’t waste your time trying to make it work. Tell her that maybe when you’re back in town you can’t meet or you can try having an online relationship with them if they’re interested in cyber sex. Leave it at that then focus on replying to women who are ready to meet.
7) Make her feel sexy
You need to make her feel sexy and wanted if you want her to be eager to meet you because she won’t be interested in a guy who’s only thinking about himself. Tell her that you can’t stop thinking about her, that she looks attractive in her photos and you haven’t met anyone like her on hookup sites before. This will show her that your attraction to her is real and she’ll want to meet you as soon as possible.
8) Be interesting
By being interesting you’re going to make women want to get to know you better and spend time with you because their curiosity is piqued. You can make yourself seem interesting by talking about your hobbies and interests as well as why you’re traveling. If you’re traveling because of work it can sound boring so mention it briefly then talk about the local attractions you’ve visited or want to see. Keep the conversation going in your messages to her and try to be upbeat and funny while avoiding sex so you don’t seem like all the other guys on the site.
9) Be open-minded
When you’re traveling you don’t want to waste time so be open-minded and consider hooking up with someone you normally wouldn’t choose. Even though you want hot ladies it wouldn’t be a bad thing to settle for an average and fun woman because you can still have a god time with her. The only requirement you should stick to is that she must only be after a hookup otherwise it might cause problems later if she wants a serious relationship.
10) Arrange to meet as soon as possible
Since you’re looking for a hookup try to arrange a meeting as soon as possible so you don’t miss your chance. When you’ve found someone that seems to be interested in you let them know that you’d love to meet them but will only be in town for a short period of time. Don’t pressure them because that might make them change their mind so let them decide when and where to meet. Give them a few times that work for you then tell them to let you know when is good for them to meet you.
11) Show her a good time
Finding someone on hookup sites like AdultfriendFinder can be difficult so when you meet someone you like you need to keep them interested and willing to hookup with you more than once. You should make the experience good for her from start to finish and you can do this by being polite, respectful and being the type of person she wants to see again. You should also take your time during sex, giving her foreplay and driving her crazy, so she’ll be eager to hookup with you again before you leave town.
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