Every guy has been in a position where he’s with a woman and things are going great but she doesn’t want to have sex with him. Maybe it’s too soon in the relationship or she’s just not in the mood, whatever her reasons are it doesn’t change the fact that he wants something he can’t have. If you find yourself in this situation there are a few things you can do to change things around.
If your date isn’t interested in having sex with you then you could try to gently change her mind. Don’t be too forceful otherwise you’ll come off like a jerk, instead use a bit of flirting. The problem might be that she’s not in the mood and needs a bit more time before taking things further. Let her know you’re fine with not getting sex but gently touch her hand or put your arm over her shoulder so she can snuggle up to you. Pay attention to her body language and see if she wants more.
If you can’t change her mind then look elsewhere for single women to spend the night with. Check out adult dating sites to find someone in your area and who you can meet as soon as possible. There are lots of different sites so join one or two and put a profile. It will only take a few minutes for you to upload a picture and to describe what you’re looking for then you can use the search function to find people who are online right now. When you’ve found someone you like you can arrange to meet in person or give cyber-sex a try. Either way, there’s a good chance she’s online because she wants to have a bit of fun.
You don’t necessarily have to go through all the work of finding someone who wants to meet then deciding where to meet. Instead you could try using a cam site because these are full of sexy, horny single women who just want a guy to play with. There are free sites and sites that require a membership so you can decide what type of experience you’re looking for. Once you’ve chosen a site you can pick out any woman you want and she’ll do anything you ask her to. If you use a high quality site then you can usually find better looking women as well as ones who cater to kinks. She’ll do things for you that your girlfriend won’t even consider doing.
If all else fails then you could always go back to using porn to satisfy yourself. It can be a good alternative while you’re waiting for someone to reply to your hook up ad online. There are several well known sites that offer free videos to people so keep a tab open with your dating profile on so people know you’re online and start watching a hot video.
Online you can find dating sites and cam sites that you can easily join and spend time on until your girlfriend is ready to have sex with you. There are lots of single women who would love to hook up with you so if this happens to you then try your luck with one of them.
Currently She works as dating writer for different adult blogs, and She coaches men and women on sex and relationship.
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